Promiscuity for the dilettante, monogamy for the realist.
Projection is sonar for companionship
women are left in the wind to their own literal vices, developing mother nature’s tactic for the deserted and the deranged: Aposematism.
Conflict and hardship are feedback. All else is a guess.
Sado-Masochism isn’t a fetish, it’s life.